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The 4 Keys
More Praise for Opening Doors to Teamwork and Collaboration
Foreword
Welcome to Opening Doors
The Keys That Open Doors to Better Interactions Teamwork and Collaboration
Introduction
Using the 4 Keys Starts with Joining
Opening the Door to ….. TRUST Key #1: Lean into Discomfort
What does discomfort have to do with trust?
When we open the door and trust…
Change Requires Us to Lean into Discomfort
So what’s stopping us from wanting to Lean into Discomfort?
The cost of not creating trust
So how do we make it safer to Lean in ?
To help create safety (for ourselves and others) we need to …
Creating safety does not mean eliminating risk
When we Lean into Discomfort we …
Delayed Gratification
And the Door to Trust Starts to Open …
“I am going to Lean into Discomfort and …”
New Route to Success
Oh Yes I Do!
Checklist for Leaning into Discomfort
Opening the Door to …. COLLABORATION Key #2: Listen as an Ally
Are we all in this together?
Without a sense of “we ” it is impossible to achieve …
Creating a “We”: A Community of Effort
But often is it difficult to create a “we” and to Listen as an Ally…
But when people see themselves as a “we” and Listen as Allies …
Like a Friend
To Listen as an Ally means …
Listening as an Ally Enables the Discovery of Common Interests
Listening as an Ally Enables Us to Find Our Common Good
Listening as an Ally Enables Us to Link Our Ideas Thoughts and Feelings
Listening as an Ally Enables Us to Give Energy Back
Listening as an Ally Is Not about Sugarcoating or Avoiding the Truth
Listening as an Ally Also Means to Challenge as an Ally
If each of us doesn’t Challenge as an Ally …
Overcoming the “No No No!” Reaction
So what’s stopping us from wanting to Listen as an Ally?
Present to Us Again Sam
Checklist for Listening as an Ally
Opening the Door to … …. UNDERSTANDING Key #3: State Your Intent and Intensity
This seems so elementary
At XYZ Company People Count
All Thoughts Suggestions and Ideas Are Not Created Equal
Without Understanding Waste Is Inevitable
The door to understanding won’t open …
THE COMMON PROBLEM OF “DRIVE-BY” COMMUNICATIONS
Guide to Notions Stakes Boulders & Tombstones
Abdul’s Badge
“This Is Just a Notion…”
Opening the Door to Understanding Yourself
So What’s Stopping You from Wanting to State Your Intent and Intensity?
A Boulder with Some Stakes
Checklist for Stating Intent and Intensity
Opening the Door to …. BREAKTHROUGHS Key #4: Share Your Street Corner
What Is the View from Your Street Corner ?
We all need to be willing to share our Street Corners
Our First To-Do
The Key That Opens the Door to Breakthroughs
Wrong OR Different?
Seeing Value in Differences of Opinion
Reaching Out to New Street Corners
I Need to Hear Your Street Corner
So What’s Stopping You from Wanting to Share Your Street Corner ?
Another Street Corner
It’s Not Faster if It’s Not Right
What Extra Time?
To Share Your Street Corner You Must …
Ask Who Else Needs to Be in the Room
If you want to include all Street Corners …
Here’s My Street Corner
Checklist for Inviting Others to Share Street Corners
Last Words OUR HOPES AND DREAMS
Start Today
Doors will open
Acknowledgments
About the Authors
Also by Judith H. Katz and Frederick A. Miller
The Inclusion Breakthrough
