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①我的朋友女生缘特别好，和我形成了鲜明的对比。于是我向他请教怎样才能俘获女孩们的芳心。他告诉我：“这没什么难的。只要你对她们冷淡点就可以了。”我按照他说的试了试，居然真的有效。这是不是匪夷所思？当我冷冷淡淡的时候，反而让女孩们为我倾倒。——作者注（若无特殊说明，本书脚注均为作者注）